Laughter for the soul....

I thought about something today. Nothing earth shattering, or even new to me, although I seem to have forgotten it lately. We all need laughter in our lives. It helps lift the spirits, gives us a hormone rush, makes us feel better. The world is stressful. Find whatever makes you laugh and then make sure you indulge yourself in it. We cannot control a lot of the stress we are all under, but we can definitely help ourselves by actively seeking ways to relieve it.

On that note, I found a comedian online today that literally made me laugh out loud. I was working on transfers and listening while I worked, and I burst out laughing several times. It was good for my soul. I have often read inspirational writing, and all the Chicken Soup for the Soul stuff, and its all great. If its the written word, I enjoy it. But honestly, listening to this comedian today lifted my spirits in a way I haven't been lifted in quite awhile. I felt better emotionally, physically and mentally.

It is easy to let the world get you down. Take my advice. Comedy. Natural prozac for the soul. Its the real deal.

One more hour....

I am not sure what is driving it, but recently there have been a lot of memes on my facebook about missing someone, and how nice it would be to have one more hour with that person who is missed.  I have thought a lot about it in the past few days, because today, January 4, 2025, would have been my dad's 102nd birthday, and I always think a lot about him at this time of year.  

Choices

Sunday is Mother's Day, and I am grateful to still have my mother with me.  At 97, every single day is a gift, and I'm thankful for the opportunity to give back to her a little bit of what she has given me for 60 plus years.  

But I have also been thinking about what it means to be a mother to my own children.  Life is a complicated dance between competing obligations, and it can be very hard to decide which steps are most important at any given moment.

Grandparenting 101

 Sometimes the obvious is just not that obvious to me, as I have realized over the last few days.  My grandsons have their birthdays two days apart at the end of April, so I always spend time thinking about them this time of year, reviewing the past year and everything that we have done together and experienced.  And I also spend time thinking about my role in their lives, and what I bring to the table as a grandmother.

But this year, we laid to rest my aunt at age 100, as the boys turned seven and nine, and the juxtaposition of those two events has made me understand this relationship in a whole new way.

My mother's hand....

 I recently had the opportunity to observe, up close, my mother's hand as she lay still and quiet. I wondered what other people saw, when they looked at that hand. It is an elderly hand, one that has seen a lot of hard use over the 97 years it has served her. It is fragile, worn, chapped, swollen, and a little weary from all the work that has been accomplished, and it is ready to have some well deserved rest from its labors, just as my mother is.

But I don't see any of that as I gaze at her today. Instead, here is what I see when I look at my mother's hand.